My Iowa lesbian wedding, let me show it to you

Well, actually tell you about it. Acclaimed author and editor Lisabet Sarai was kind enough to ask me over to her new blog to talk about our wedding. Why? Because Lisabet rocks (and is an excellent writer. Just saying). And because, for whatever reason, there aren't that many queer out erotica/romance/sf/f crossover authors racing off to Iowa to tie the knot. I say they're missing out.
 You can read my post here.
It's more detailed and coherent than my posts since I actually had time to draft it out and all.
In other news, Hell Cold is rocking my world. So not fun. Brain on one quarter speed and coherence. Ick.

Terrific post on being a Nerd of Color

in the Minneapolis Star Tribune, of all places.  It's by Bao Phi, who's a Twin Cities performance poet:
www.startribune.com/yourvoices/82188702.html
Check it out, it's good stuff.