Update

 My day so far: up at 4:30AM for jolly migraine-triggered power puking, followed by several more hours of "fun," followed by my GP and I simultaneously canceling on each other for my morning appointment due to illness, followed by a care conference re: Mom. Prognosis: got another move coming up (no more quasi-independent living) and she won't be happy about it. Another month ahead of wrangling and sorting and dealing. So please bear with me if I owe you responses, etc. And at this point, I'm well aware of the options so commiseration and/or sympathy or help is welcome, advice less so at the moment. Thanks for understanding! 😕