we don't have any of the classic dynamics. I am pretty much the femme top from Hell, she doesn't do much butch posturing, not a whole lot of the caretaking that "Butch" describes going on, etc., etc. Or so I thought. Got home the other night feeling stressed and sore and mumbled something about taking a bath. My beloved bolted into the bathroom to scrub down the tub. Immediately. Okay, so maybe there is something to it.

Heh. I love it when you go "Excuse me we don't fit into that at all. Your understanidng is totally flawed...oh wait except how it isn't. Curses!